Here are six ways to build a stronger relationship…
Infidelity is a scary reality – made scarier still by the modern, tech-advanced lifestyles we lead, where an affair is as simple as the click of a button. If you’re worried your partner might be tempted to stray, or you’d just rather be safe than sorry, use these relationship hacks to keep his eyes focused firmly on you.
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1. Be Alone (Together)
Without the kids or friends. The more separate a couple’s work life, social life and daily living situation is, the more likely they are to cheat. Tell him how much you appreciate him, both as a husband and a lover.
2/ Be Open-Minded
Find out what would make your partner feel more sexually attractive. Speak out about what you want in turn.
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3/ Be Honest
It’s okay to feel attracted to other people; in fact, 98 percent of married men and 80 percent of married women admit to fantasising about someone other than their partner. Instead of going into denial, give yourself permission to fantasise – just don’t act on it. As they say: it doesn’t matter where you get your appetite, as long as you come home for dinner.
4/ Be Up For It
If one partner routinely wants sex and the other person refuses it, problems – including infidelity – often arise. So initiate a roll in the hay when you’re feeling frisky and try saying yes even if you aren’t in the mood.
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5/ Be Enterprising
If you’re having sexual problems, or just not having enough sex, see a counsellor so you can avoid the inevitable atrophy.
6/ Be Surprising
Recreating excitement can actually boost dopamine and oxytocin, two brain chemicals responsible for that love rush. So indulge in a spontaneous road trip, book a hotel room in your own city, take him on an unexpected date…
Here’s what to do if you think your partner might be cheating. Plus: “I had an affair with a married colleague – this is how it happened.”
