Most women wish that their partners would pipe it down slightly, but there are many other women who wish that their partners would just approach them for sex, or any form of physical contact once in a while.
We want sex for the intimacy that goes with it. If we’re not getting any from the one we love, it can be extremely difficult. If all your friends are complaining about their partners who can’t leave them alone, how are you going to explain to them that yours don’t want you at all?
The good news and the bad news is: If a man has low sexual desire, there is almost certainly something wrong physically or psychologically. This means that you can rest assured that it has nothing to do with you, but that he will need professional help. Unlike with women, the causes of low libido in men can often be treated.
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Common Causes Of Low Libido In Men
- Medical/biological: low testosterone levels, high prolactin levels, HIV, epilepsy, renal failure, heart disease and stroke
- Psychological: depression, anxiety, anger and post-traumatic stress syndrome
- Body issues: bodybuilding and eating disorders
- Normal ageing
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Studied Risk Factors
- Daily alcohol consumption (2.5 times more likely)
- Poor health (3 times more likely)
- Emotional problems or stress (3 times more likely)
- Any same-sex activity ever (2.5 times more likely)
- Partner had an abortion ever (twice as likely)
- Sexually touched before puberty (more than twice as likely)
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Desire discrepancy is normal in any relationship. Every man whose partner has a higher libido than him is certainly not abnormal and full of issues or living with a chronic disease. You will know if what you experience in your relationship could be classified as normal or not and if you will be able to live with it or not. If not, please get help.